At The Old Girl Spiritual Stuff,
I will help you transform your spiritual curiosity into real, actionable wisdom.

My approach blends ancient knowledge with modern life lessons, offering you the tools to live more intentionally, guided by the spirit of your higher self.

The Benefits:

I offer a unique blend of down-to-earth teachings and spiritual insight to help you navigate life’s challenges with clarity, empowerment, and connection.

Clarity: Connect with your inner self, align with your higher purpose, and learn to trust your intuition.
Empowerment: Take control of your life's journey through spiritual practices that promote personal responsibility, growth, and healing.
Connection: Be part of a supportive community, where spiritual teachings guide you toward lasting personal transformation. Whether through one-on-one readings or our membership platform, you’ll find the support you need on your journey.

Why This Is for You:

If you’re a woman over 50, life has already taught you many lessons—both the highs and the lows. But now, you’re seeking something deeper.

You want to make sense of your experiences and move forward with intention, grace, and newfound wisdom. Perhaps you’ve faced heartbreak, loss, or confusion, and now you’re ready to reclaim your personal power.

This is for you if you’re:

Ready to embark on a spiritual journey after a lifetime of experiences.
Seeking a mentor who blends spiritual wisdom with real-life challenges.
Looking for clear, no-nonsense guidance to navigate the spiritual path with humor, heart, and practical tools.

What You Will Receive | What I Do:

By working with me and becoming part of The Old Girl Spiritual Stuff community, you’ll gain access to:

Spiritual Teachings with a Practical Twist: Learn how to apply spiritual principles—like the Law of Attraction and Deliberate Manifestation—into your everyday life.
Personalised Guidance: One-on-one readings and consultations will help you find clarity, connect with passed loved ones, and offer direction for the future.
Community & Support: Through zoom sessions, membership platform, and social channels, you’ll have access to ongoing spiritual growth tools and a community that supports your journey.

Barbara aka The Spiritual Old Girl

Barbara Hayward is a world-renowned Medium-Clairvoyant, author, and spiritual teacher with over 40 years of experience. A mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, she has been blessed with a life full of family, living across four different countries. Originally from Australia, Barbara now resides in New Zealand, where she continues to guide people on their spiritual journeys.

Her spiritual path began after her separation from her husband, when she met her teacher, Crystal McMahon. Under Crystal’s mentorship, Barbara learned to connect deeply with the natural elements, to “hear the unseen and see the unheard,” and to communicate with her Spirit People—a connection that has guided her through decades of both personal and professional growth.

Barbara’s work has touched thousands of lives. Her radio show, The Barbara Hayward Clairvoyant Hour, spanned three years and connected her with over 2,000 callers, where she offered wisdom and insight on personal concerns, future paths, and connections with passed loved ones.

She is also the author of Letters from Grandma, a memoir that explores her journey as a Medium while revealing her personal struggles and triumphs—such as loss, grief, and forgiveness. Through her storytelling, she invites readers to experience both the magical and challenging moments of her life, offering lessons and inspiration for their own journeys.

In addition to her individual readings and webinars, Barbara hosts Mrs Potts - Friends over a Cuppa, a weekly Zoom gathering on Fridays at noon (NZ time), where "Auntie Barb" shares her wisdom in an intimate, down-to-earth setting. This casual gathering provides a safe space for spiritual conversations, reflection, and connection over a comforting cup of tea.

Barbara is dedicated to making spiritual teachings practical and accessible. Through her readings, webinars, and social media, she teaches people how to integrate spiritual principles into their everyday lives, guiding them to embrace personal growth and a deeper understanding of themselves. Whether you are new to the spiritual path or seeking deeper guidance, Barbara is here to help you find clarity, purpose, and connection.

Reading Barbara D. Hayward's book "Letters from Grandma" felt like receiving a warm hug wrapped in wisdom and love. Each chapter begins with a heartfelt letter to her granddaughter, weaving a golden thread of connections that sets the stage for her profound life lessons. Barbara's story is one of unimaginable courage-transforming pain into purpose and despair into hope, Her clairvoyant insights and personal reflections light up every page like sunbeams, leaving readers feeling uplifted, inspired and deeply moved. This isn't just a book; it's a legacy of love,healing and the kind of Spiritual wisdom that stays with you long after you turn the last page, A true treasure for the Soul.

Sanet Van Breda

Diamond Beauty's Forever Facebook - South Africa

The energy of Barbara's book was vibrating and the anticipation of what the following pages were waiting to reveal was intoxicating. Don't let the name fool you. Letters from Grandma is a book of heartache, bravery, comedy, personal history and a women's story that demands to be heard. Barb has written this book in such a way that you are included on her journey. This book is an opportunity for the reader to feel, question and listen to what is being said both inside themselves and outside of themselves. Barb, thank you for putting pen to paper and inviting us the reader into your world and sharing your story.

Jacky Foss

Difference Maker - Soul Journeying with Jack Foss

I had a 90-minute session with Barbara, and I was absolutely blown away. She came into the reading without knowing anything about me—not my story, not my background, nothing. And yet, as soon as we started, she shared details about my life that nobody could have possibly known. These were things I’ve never shared publicly, and the accuracy was almost unbelievable.
Barbara didn’t ask me to give her any information or even respond—she simply let the messages flow, and everything she said was spot on. Not only did she reflect back things from my life with incredible precision, but she also shared insights about my future that felt both powerful and deeply aligned.

The energy throughout the session was beautiful, calm, and transformative. What Barbara did for me was truly amazing, and I walked away feeling both seen and inspired.

I highly, highly recommend booking a reading with Barbara if you ever get the chance. Don’t hesitate—just do it. She has a gift that can truly change your life.

Nina Maglic

Healing Millions Community - Australia

Through Barbs guidance as a Spiritual Mentor, I was able to find clarity and answers I’d been looking for. Barb is an amazing psychic and medium, with the truly powerful skill of storytelling to help to guide you. I highly recommend working with Barb if you are looking for someone to be your Spiritual Mentor both personally and/or within your business. Her connections to the spirit world is strong and clear and her advice is extremely valuable and steeped in wisdom.

Janelle Watson